BIPOLAR-1 or Is He Just a Cruel, Vicious, Mean Person? Relationship or Business Transaction?
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He’s been diagnosed with “Bipolar-1 depression” and “Borderline Schizoaffective disorder” but otherwise seems completely normal. You would never know he had mental illness unless he told you.
He’s had 16 significant others by the time he was 16. All unprotected. Plus, hes had several unprotected sex partners.
He dropped out of high school just 2 months into his Sophomore year, at age 15. He was sent to foster care at age 16 for 6 months.
Hes been in rehab 3 times for marijuana, cocaine, and alchohol. He doesnt have a driverse license, and he works part time at mcdonalds.
Anyways, hes 18-years-old now. We met two years ago where I started off dating him as a “mini” sugar daddy. I would pay him money, or take him out to dinner, or buy him cigs for sex.
I fell in love with him, but when he was taken away to foster care for 6 months we didnt see each other at all then.
After he got out, we got back together. We dated “on-and-off” for more than a year. When we were in a relationship he cheated on me.
Just a couple weeks later after he cheated on me, he takes a cross-country roadtrip to Florida. He drives 20 hours each way to spend 10 days together “bonding” with his new signifcant others family ( the same one who he cheated on me with)
He never called me once in the 10 days while he was “road tripping” across the country to Florida, or even when he got back home. He use to call me 10 times a day, every day, for months.
He told me:
“Sex with you used to be good in the beginning, but now it’s disgusting. You couldn’t pay me enough money to have sex with you anymore because you’re disgusting. You’re horrible at giving head, and you have no sexual experience.”
“I always gave you bad sex on purpose because your’e nasty, and I dont give a f*** about you. The way you think is f***** up. You’re a psychopath and I never loved you.”
“You’re just jealous that i have a new significant other that i love… and i dont love you. I would cheat on you again if we ever got back together because you’re horrible to be in a relationship with. ”
He also said a few months ago: “you’re not first place, you’re more like 5th or 6th.”
When I asked for an apology, he said I was the one who should be apologizing to him for calling his new significant other a “skank” for cheating on me.
Obviously he’s very manipulative, controlling, and jealous. Whenever he criticizes me, hes usually just repaeting what other people have said about him.
Anyways, towards the end of our relationship he wasn’t able to stay firm while making love. He’s never had this problem before since hes 18! So obviously i thought he was cheating on me.
Then suddenly he refused to use his tongue when kissing, and he would physically peel my arm off the back of his neck while driving, claiming he didnt like his neck massages anymore. He also stopped holding hands in my car, when we use to always hold hands for more than a year.
He knows im in love with him. I guess thats why he treats me like s***. It’s like im his backup relationship.
A part of me wants to get back together with him, because hes the only person ive ever fallen in love with; however, I know he will just cheat on me again and continue to disrespect me. He told me so himself!
They have been together now since May 30th (7 weeks). They literally have sex every single day.
When I was his, he would say stuff like “we cant have sex every time you see me. I want to hang out with my friends on my day off instead of you.”
He wouldnt spend one night with me at an amusement park, but he has no problem taking 10 days off work to drive 2500 miles to florida with his new skank.
He wouldnt let me spend the night at his house, or introduce me to his friends. He hid me like he was emabarrassed. For example, at the grocery store he met someone he knew and told me to walk i nthe other direction like we dont know each other.
However, he shows off his new relationship to everybody like a trophy. Theyve already met each others parents after one month.
Hes not seeing a shrink. He use to take 400mg Seroquel nightly, but he lowered it to 50mg night.
I dont understand how he could move-on so quickly after claiming to love me. He use to call me 10 times day, and have sex 4 times a week for 3 months.
Now he wants me to pay him 50 an hour for sex, as a business transaction.
I never viewed him as a prostitute. I always viewed him as someone I fell in love with.
What bothers me is how lightning-fast he has moved-on to the next person, like I never even existed. He has no remorse for cheating on me. He treats this new person like a God, but treats me like s***.
I dont understand how he can so quickly fall “in love with” another person, and then take a 10-day vacation with them sleeping together every night just a few weeks later, but when he was wit hme, he was like “we cant see each other every single day.”
People will say obviously he never loved you, and was using you. But how can he “love” someone else so quickly?
I mean would you travel cross-county to Florida in mid-summer with someone you only knew a few weeks?
Your thoughts….
Best answer:
Answer by Bo0o0o
my thoughts are…
IT’S FREAKING OBVIOUS HE’S A SCHIZO!!! HIS BI-POLARITY SHOOOOOOOOOOOOWS WAY TOOOOOO MUCH…
U HAVE GOT TO BE TOTALLY STUPID TO NOT REALIZE THAT HE’S GOT PROBLEMS….
U SAY “U DON’T NOTICE UNLESS HE TELLS U” BUT WITH HIS ACTIONS… HONESTLY IT’S A NO BRAINER TO REALIZE THAT HE’S MENTALLY UNSTABLE!!!
BUT I’M GOING TO BE A 100% HONEST WITH U…. I THINK U R JUST AS SCHIZO AS HE IS…NOBODY IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD BE IN LOVE WITH SOME1 WHO TREATS THEM THE WAY HE TREATS U…
AND U KNOW THAT HE HAD ALWAYS ONLY BEEN WITH U SIMPLY BECAUSE U GAVE HIM MONEY… I DON’T KNOW HOW U CAN THINK HE WAS IN LOVE WITH U… U SAID IT URSELF U WERE HIS “MINI SUGAR DADDY” …. THAT’S ALL U WERE WORTH TO HIM…
honestly i’m really really sorry, but i can’t give u an advise… only people who want to be helped can be saved… you don’t seem to want to let go of him… u r just like a flea stuck to a dog….
u need to go see a psychotherapist…
Answer by Rhiannon
he might be bipolar 2, but i dont think 1. im bipolar 1 and in order to get this diagnosis one has to have had a full blown mania with grandious delusions (like thinking you are gods messenger or something) and most bp 1s that i know also experience psychosis (usually hearing voices) during our manic episodes. When i am manic though i fall in love with another person right away and they fall in love with me right away too because they are attracted to the energy i am putting off but when i come down from the mania its like “what am i doing with this person?” and the you realize you didnt really love them, it was the mania. during my last manic episode i left someone i loved for someone else but after i came down from my mania i went back to the first person. If he is bipolar, he probably doesnt really love her.
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